Lagos, NIGERIA —
(Heart to heart talk)
Please before you comment, criticize or
suggest, make sure you read this to the end. I hope to make this very
balanced and objective. Touching both ends of the spectrum. However,
what I WILL NOT tolerate is insults, and name calling. That is not the
idea of this article.
I won’t be too formal in my writing. My
aim is to make this as clear and real as possible. As though I was
speaking. So, please forgive my writing style.
This is a very a touchy and tense area
of discuss. Money is very important in ministry. Make no mistake about
it. Anyone that says it’s not, is only a pretender and not speaking the
truth. We need it to make the albums, to feed, have shelter, pay fees,
care for our children, our lives and others. As well as having some
other pleasures of life. So don’t be sorry about the need for money. It
is very important.
However, what is worrisome, and
something that has taken a dangerous trend is the degree to which WE
music ministers have allowed money drive us. Now, I won’t even begin the
argument of whether to charge or not. I believe everyone has got their
own revelation and understanding, and we have no right to judge those
who charge, and even those who do not.
My issue this morning is the amount and
conditions we demand before ministering. You know the truth? MINISTRY IS
STIILL MINISTRY o! IT IS NOT BUSINESS ! A business is a venture set up
solely for making profit and for financial gains and interest.
But if you have to charge, make it
moderate, and remember that that church or ministry is also your
co-labourer in the vineyard. By the time we begin to demand some
millions of naira to minister to God and his people, and insist on
getting them before we do, what do we say, indirectly, to JESUS? Can we
pay for his blood? The air? Salvation? Love? Protection? Even the gift
we have and now charging outrageous fees for? I mean, a local church
invites you, a small assembly, they don’t deal in oil and gas, or import
and export, and we make some ludicrous demands. Haba! Money is not
everything o.
And please note, I’m not saying this
because I have it all together, indeed I’m a work in progress. And also
have lots of financial needs. Infact, I have been POORLY treated a
number of times, and still treated so sometimes. But I understand that
some ministries lack the culture of honour, and in some cases sincerely
do not have to give, or have no understanding. But this is ALSO what
ministry is about. Sacrifice. I don’t want to look like a success here
on earth, and then appear someday before Jesus, and hear him say,
“depart from me, you “business man” and hustler”
On the other side of the coin, Paul the
Apostle emphasizes the need for ministers of the gospel to be taken care
of. Please read 1 Corinthians 9. We mustn’t muzzle the ox that threads
the corn. When someone comes in and ministers to you, it is good, sound
and scriptural practice to bless them according to your capacity and
ability as a ministry. In fact, I know that a number of music ministers
have reacted and acted based on the treatment meted on them by some
ministries. I have encountered them too.
Some ministries just lack, I MEAN LACK, a
culture of honor. They would spend huge sums on other projects and
activities, but when it comes to honoring a music minister, especially
those who have not made demands, they part with some stipend that can
barely transport the team back.
This is what I do, when I accept an
invitation to minister, and I sense genuine love, care and honour from
my hosts, even if they don’t have enough to give, we accept whatever we
are given with so much joy, because you can see their heart. And would
do more if they had more. So when next I’m invited, I GO because I’ve
come to understand that money isn’t everything. Relationship is more
important. And in fact, I’ve had people do things for me that money
cannot pay for.
But if I go somewhere, and sense that we
have been deliberately dishonored and exploited due to our simplicity, I
NEVER return there again. Except of course GOD says so.
We’ve also been to places where we were
given very good offerings, but the people were just mean and unfriendly,
perhaps feeling they have done us a favour or “PAID” us some huge sum.
And never returned again
You see, Jesus did not try to make his
people receive him o. They didn’t honour and believe Him; the man left
and did his miracles elsewhere. The bible says he did LITTLE miracles in
his own home town. When I smell a people of dishonour, and by this I
don’t necessarily mean MONEY. In some cases I’ve been to some ministries
and fellowship, and after so much love shown to us, we handed them back
their offering, as seed from us. But when I perceive a people of
dishonour, I don’t go near them.
I tell my people in church, NO BODY SHOULD COME MINISTER TO US, AND
LEAVE WITHOUT BEING BLESSED, financially or at the very least with a
gift. Even if the person ministering is a billionaire in dollars, and
may not need our money. Remember, it is not the money, but the principle
and culture of honour. It is almost like a crime not to honour people
where I worship.
A number of times, my colleagues try to justify this by comparing
themselves with their secular Artistes, or foreign music counterparts.
As well as by some points I’ve mentioned above. I always ask them, ARE
YOU A SECULAR MUSICIAN? ARE YOU IN THEIR KINGDOM? And when they use the
foreign music ministers, I ask them, DID SO AND SO SAVE YOU? DID THEY
DIE FOR YOU? So why pattern your life according to them. I also ask the
question, “what has God said to you about this matter?”
God gave me clear instructions about my ministry. And this guides me. It’s important that we all have same.
So I appeal to the music ministers,
please be moderate in your demands. Find a holy and scriptural balance.
And to the ministries, imbibe a genuine culture of honor. We are not
saying worship them. This is quite simple. There are some ministries I
don’t even joke with. When I get a call from them, I immediately look
forward to going, except God says otherwise. Because they honour us. In
fact a particular ministry here in Lagos, honor us so much, whenever any
of their branches call, they almost get automatic ticket, but still
subject to a leading.
Don’t expect music ministers to return to a place where they were deliberately disrespected and dishonored.
And finally, to music ministers, I have
discovered that my dreams are too big for only church honorariums and cd
sales to cater for. God has blessed me more from people and places I
didn’t even expect. And I believe He will do same and much more for you,
in Jesus’ name. Amen.
1 COR 9:11” 11 If we have sown unto you spiritual things, is it a great thing if we shall reap your carnal things?”
Culled from Nathaniel Bassey’s Facebook page
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