How To Overcome Perfectionism

 The Word For Today

‘…think about the things that are good…’ 
Philippians 4:8 NCV

Be honest: Have you ever met a perfectionist who was truly happy? No, because when things must always ‘be a certain way’, life becomes miserable because it’s constantly changing. As soon as you solve one problem, another comes along.
 Instead of dwelling on their blessings and being grateful, perfectionists focus on what’s wrong and why they need to fix it. It may be a job they did that was less than perfect, a few pounds they need to lose, or even a disorganised wardrobe. Or it could be someone else’s imperfections: the way they live their life, how they behave, or the way they look. Constantly dwelling on flaws—your own or someone else’s—makes it impossible to be grateful. And gratitude is at the core of happiness. 

Now, let’s be clear; we’re not talking about striving to do better. That’s a good thing. We’re talking about obsessing over what’s wrong. There’ll always be a better way to do something, but that doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy life the way it is right now. So what’s the cure? Catch yourself before you fall into the trap of insisting that things should be different from how they are. Stop and remind yourself that, in the absence of your judgment, everything will work out just fine. 
Paul says, ‘…in all things God works for the good of those who love him…’ (Romans 8:28 NIV). Are you getting it? God’s in control; it’s okay for you to let go. Instead of focusing on the negative, ‘think about the things that are good and worthy of praise’. When you do, you’ll begin to discover how wonderful life is.

About the song; When troubles come my way...@adenuga_wale

Good day folks, 

I stumbled on this short piece believed to be written by Songwriter and Singer Wale Adenuga. It reminds me of our hearts disposition when we sing this part. Do you change it to "when Success comes my way" or just sing the usual line casually? Here's an experience by Wale Adenuga;

"I have written a number of songs. But the most popular of them has been Today O! And it's probably the most contentious too. That's because some people don't find it comfortable singing "when troubles come my way".

So it was refreshing when I was contacted by Kent Brantly for permission to have the lyrics of the song published in his new book, CALLED FOR LIFE.

Kent, a medical missionary in Liberia had contracted Ebola. He was the first person with Ebola to be treated in the US when he was evacuated to Emory University.

Dr. Brantly writes "I had marvelled at hearing Liberians sing that song at the top of their lungs, with full recognition of its meaning as they concluded with "When troubles come my way, I will praise you Lord." As they sang, I tried to imagine all the suffering they had endured, with the civil wars...

Reading this humbles me and makes me grateful that God would use me to etch those words."

Travis Malloy to Host ”Purposed 2 Worship” Concert - @Travis_Malloy

Gospel Recording Artist, Travis Malloy will host concert, "Purposed 2 Worship" presented by Malloy Entertainment. Concert will be held in his hometown, Pittsburgh, Pa at the Mount Ararat Baptist Church on October 2, 2015 at 7:30pm. This event will feature Travis Malloy, BET Sunday Best Winner (Season 6) Tasha Page-Lockhart of Detroit Michigan and Brother Hahz of Brooklyn New York.

This concert series was birthed based on Malloy's desire to create an avenue for youth and young adults to be inspired through spirit filled music and healthy activities. This particular event will launch the "Inspired to Live on Purpose" initiative which in the future we hope to make annual. Travis has always had the passion and desire to give back to his city; especially to young people who have grown up in urban communities like himself. Through this initiative Travis wants to inspire people young and old to walk in their God given purpose via workshops, conferences, and life skill trainings, etc.

Tickets are now available online at :TravisMalloy.brownpapertickets.com. They will also be available at Dorsey's Record Shop & Stedeford's Record Shop on August 12th.